The game does not discriminate

All women are possible victims of the game.  In some cases women who are educated and successful may be more likely to be targeted by the player.  Women who are not in need of financial support sometimes intimidate men.  Therefore, a lot of these women are without partners.  Lonely women are the player’s favorite victims. 

 

I can’t tell you how many times I’ve heard women say that they are tired of being alone.  This thing called loneliness has caused company heads to throw caution to the wind and get involved in relationships they wouldn’t have otherwise.  A lot of successful women are failures in their private lives.  They have everything except a family and will often discard logic to obtain one.  African American women who hold executive level jobs discover that there are very few African American men at that level.  They spend their lives overachieving themselves a successful career, only to find that they have no one to share it with.   

 

At first these women are positive about their situation, they get involved in clubs and organizations where they can socialize with their peers.  She will most likely set her sights on someone who will complement her success.   The problem with this is so has everyone else.  When natural charms fail the successful woman she resorts to buying what she wants.  She buys expensive gifts and vacations to persuade her man to be with her.  This technique usually fails because the successful black man is a rare commodity and because of this, he may be the most notorious player

 

After failing to find a man amongst her peers the successful woman will look elsewhere.  They will find interest in the deliveryman, that nice brother that works at the fast food place; sometimes this works.  Because of her underlying desire to be with someone financially equal or appears to be financially equal shes open to the player.  Men say they can tell when a woman is looking for a man and this somehow makes her less attractive.  However, the player is interested in this type of woman because she is easy to victimize. He spends a few dollars to wine and dine her; he may even buy a gift or two.  The most important thing he gives is his companionship and affection.  This is priceless to the lonely woman and she will do nearly anything to maintain this relationship.

 

Successful women do not hold a monopoly on loneliness. Women from all walks of life suffer from loneliness and because of it are possible victims of the game. 

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