Turning the tables

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Sometimes it takes a while to realize that you are dating a player.  When you do realize it the smart thing to do is end the relationship.  Although there is something that you can do that’s a lot more fun.  Catch the player in his own game.  Although it is highly immature it is extremely satisfying. 

 

I watched a episode of divorce court once this woman was suing her husband for divorce because he cheated on her.  She said she stopped by his store one afternoon and as she walked up he was rushing a woman out of the store.  She explained that the woman stopped and screamed don’t push me I want to see what she looks like.  The other woman screamed out, I am blanking your husband that’s right, me.    The woman, his wife, said nothing because she was too much of a woman to sink to her level.  She said she left the store with a long time customer and spent a week with him.  When she returned she found the woman at her home with her child.  Her husband asked the woman to leave, he told his wife that he loved her and he was sorry about everything.  He said he had to have someone stay with their son while he worked and that was the only reason the woman was there.  So his wife agreed to stay.  She stayed for about two months and left again.  Then she came back 3 months later and once again he asked the other woman to leave.  She stayed for about 4 months and left again.  This timeshe came back pregnant with another mans child.  The husband said he didn’t care he wanted her anyway.  She stayed until she had the baby then she took both children and left again.  Then she got engaged and filed for divorce. 

 

This sounds crazy I am sure but if you think about it the other woman told her she was seeing her husband so that she would leave him.  She no longer wanted to be with him but leaving him would have given the other woman exactly what she wanted.  So instead she made him throw this woman out at least 3 times and at the same time she played him breaking his heart over and over again.  It was not the most mature way of dealing with this but revenge can be sweet. 

 

Great ways to turn the tables on a player

 

1.                  Stand him up (this is one of the best ego busters ever)

2.                  Invite him over and have another man answer the door. *Dangerous*

3.                  Call him at 2:00 in the morning for a booty call and don’t answer the door.(say you fell asleep)

4.                  Tell him you’re breaking up with him because the other guys better in bed

5.                  Tell him you’re seeing someone else and let him try to win you back.

6.                  Fall asleep during love making

7.                  Show up at a place he frequently goes with another man.  *Dangerous*

8.                  Put him on hold for 10 to 15 minutes and take another call (you can call yourself from your cell phone)

9.                  Park your car around the corner and don’t answer your phone. (He’ll loss it trying to figure out where you are)

10.              Leave an empty wine bottle with twoglasses sitting around in case he stops by unexpectedly.

 

 

 

Remember you cannot pull this off if you are afraid of losing this man.  Most guys will go away when they realize that they’re being played.  Some will call a truce and become your friend.  Others will get caught in the game and if you can loss your good-hearted nature, its up to you where you want to take it, new house, new car, marriage or all of the above.

 

To me it’s a real compliment when they call a truce because at that time he gives you something he’s never done before, respect.

 

 

*Warning, the game can be dangerous be careful.

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