Wednesday, February 27, 2008

THE ONLINE PLAYER

With the advent of the Internet there is an a perfect opportunity for "PLAYERS" the Internet has spawned so much heartbreak over the years I have read and heard so many stories about men and women being played.

With Internet you can be whoever you want to be, and there is no way to check on this person I mean you don't even have to post your own photo, the Internet is a particular playground for married men, who stupidly don't think that it is cheating if they're just talking online...WRONG....

I would WARN against Internet romances as you really have no idea who is sitting in front of the screen at the other end, because men and women weave a tale and before you know it your involved as you start to give more and personal details about your life including sending pictures of where you live etc, this is just ripe for players and stalkers.

Over and over you hear of cases of women having get the police involved because of online relationships, that's not to say that all are not genuine, but a player can carry on several of these relationships at one time.

I know of women who have actually met these men and have found the reality VERY different from the relative safety of your computer, usually the men are nice to start with but then soon the secretive behavior begins to reveal it's self also then come the loans for money etc, also they target single mums, their thinking that there is little they can do about it and they can drop them at anytime without guilt and when they have served their purpose.

So women out there THINK and protect yourself it's better to be lonely than to lose your dignity, money, home, job , friends, there are nice guys out there but you have to look a little harder that's all.

Yasmin

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