The Game is Crazy

Crazy

 

The game is crazy.   I think of it as the world being upside down.  Men look to women for financial support, yes I know things are different these days women work and earn a lot of money.  Yes I know it’s hard out there for a brother.  It’s difficult finding jobs.  But why do they think it’s easier for a sister?  If you are not a doctor, lawyer or some type of professional you are struggling.  They don’t pay women enough in general they pay minorities less. But we take that little bit of money and we make miracles. We feed, cloth, house and educate families. Other women resort to stripping and other dis-enchanting careers.  However the backbone of our community, the black woman; she dresses every child in their Sunday best, every Sunday morning and takes them to church with pride and dignity.  Because she wants her children to know what’s good and the house of the lord is the best place she knows.  But even with the bible in one hand some how mama failed to reach her sons to teach them to respect her to love and cherish her.  The church didn’t seem to help either.  My own mother a single mother raised us well.  But when my brother was 17 I over heard him telling a friend, that women were stupid you can tell them anything and they’ll believe it.  That same brother came to my house where I lived with my 4-year-old child and asked to borrow 20 dollars.  I told him I only had 20 dollars. He said if I let him borrow it he’ll give it back tomorrow when he gets paid.  I gave him my only 20 dollars and he never came back.

 

I do not think that all men are playing the game. However, there are a large percentage of them that are.  If you are not a player you can not relate but I can tell you that doctors have been played and have to find a way to deal with it or grow from it.  Most women have been played that includes host of TV shows and newscasters and more. We all have a story to tell because we are all out there looking for the same thing love.  Learning to love you is the greatest love of all.  When you love yourself it is hard to fall for the game, because the game is a direct assault on you. I’m telling all women to love themselves and not to think like an average woman but a woman who has a survivor instinct.  If you think I am bad you should talk to my mama. She has always taught me self-preservation is the first law of nature.  I’m a woman who stood up a diplomat, because he tried to play me.  I told him to meet me on the corner of 42nd and 8th Avenue in Manhattan and laughed at him calling on my answering machine while I entertained another man.

 

The problem with therapy is that we keep trying to fix the woman I say the woman isn’t broken it is the man who needs the help he is the one who is lying, cheating and feels no re-moist.  He is unbalanced. Women do what they are supposed to do, love blindly.  I once received an e-mail that said “a man asked God why did you make women so stupid, and God replied so that she would love you.” I don’t need to know how he thinks I already know; that’s why I stood up the diplomat.

 

The truth is when people need help they don’t seek it.  How many men are getting therapy for using women and leaving unwanted children behind. “Did I hear crickets.”