He So Fine

The coveted good-looking man has destroyed many women. Women lose touch with reason when they see a man that they think is “fine”. Women disrespect, wives and girlfriends. These women even disrespect parents, because they want to be with that “Fine AZZ Man”.

Every since elementary school I have witnessed women fighting over men. I went to an all girls’ school and the girls fought over boys that didn’t go to the school. The biggest fight ever in my school was between two Haitian girls who kept screaming, “that’s my man”.

The question I have is why? In most of these situations the man is totally unfaithful. He goes from woman to woman, taking full advantage of the situation. I never mention names but this time I will, when I was a pre-teen there were two twin boys that lived on my street, Tony and Ronny. They were really cute, but I didn’t think so because of their personalities. Ronny, to me, was the mean one, and he was the more rugged one. Tony was nicer and was always neat and well dressed. I once thought he was a nice person, because he was always nice to me. I was a few years younger so I knew it was not because he wanted to date me. My opinion changed after seeing how he physically abused a girl.

The first time I saw this girl she walked down our street and saw me playing out side and decided that I was her competition. She immediately started picking on me. I didn’t know her nor did I have any more than a neighborly relationship with Tony. I don’t know if this is the reason that Tony attacked her, but I was horrified at what he did. I know that the girl was a starker but his response was a little drastic. I was walking toward his house when I saw him push her and punch her so hard that she spun around and then he kicked her in the behind and told her to leave. She was mortified; I could see it in her face. Well that was my lesson learned about “Fine AZZ Men”. From that day I give a good-looking man a hard way to go. They have to work twice as hard to talk to me. Why? Because in that one instance I learned that they think it’s all about them. They think they can treat women any way that they want. They feel this way because they usually can. Women allow this and this is why it happens.

Women can prevent a lot of the things that happen to them by simply maintaining self-respect and dignity. Losing control over the appearance of a man is not logical and can be self-destructive. I do not think that Ronny and Tony started out being players I think women created these monsters.